oh god... you don't sound stupid, but we get so many of these questions. Anyway, heres the low down:
"How does DBPro compare with Multimedia Fusion, Jamagic, Blitz3D, 3D Gamestudio, 3D Rad, 3D Gamemaker, RPG Toolkit and DiNGS Game Basic etc., in terms of power, speed, ease of use and graphics quality? "
Multimedia Fusion is 2D only, no comparison visually. I would say DB is more powerful, but it's hard to compare, as MMf is object oriented, doesn't use a programming language per say, etc.
Jamagic: From what I've seen, poor graphic quality, low res, and SCRIPTING IN JAVA? What kinda retard thought that up?
Blitz 3D: Powerful and fast, and full of features. While I haven't actually used the 3D version myself much, others have, and say it's slightly harder to get the hang of. Plus the community is for registered members only...
3D Gamestudio: Costs too much, and your pretty much limited to FPS games. Again, it cost's WAY TOO MUCH!
3D Rad: To much like KNP for my liking... Plus the 3D engine isn't great. I've never really seen much good come from it.
3D Gamemaker: Not worth the money IMHO. It's fine for the real newbeish of newbies. But not powerful enough in my opinion. You can't really do to much with it.
RPG Toolkit: 2D and outdated. Skip it.
DarkBASIC Classic: Outdated, but user friendly. Not to many new features though... TONS of support from all the forum users.
DarkBASIC Pro: Easy to use, packed with features, Etc. As DBP JUST came out a month ago, there are no plans yet for DBP 2

Patches are coming fast, the first one came out the day DBP came out, The second one soon after, and we are expecting the third on soon. A huge amount of support is available on the forums, or DB Software is just an email away. There are also conventions going on, etc.
Really, you are limited to BB3D or DB. I would say pick DB, but that is because I'm biased. In the end it's your choice. Download the demos, spend some time on the forums, etc.
Cheers
Alex Wanuch
aka rapscaLLion
Alex Wanuch
aka rapscaLLion
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