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Mugen Wizardry
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Posted: 18th Apr 2009 22:42
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Hi everyone. Jeku, mods, do whatever u wish to this thread, but i had to let it out. im sorry to anyone if i offend them or whatnot. its just ive never been this shaken up. I'm deeply thinking about what just happened a few mins ago. I was taking in the groceries as usual, and my ex just rode right by me on a trick bike. Then she rode all the way to the end of the block, made a left, came back behind a neighbors tree and hid trying to see if it was me. I realized it before her so I ran b/c I didnt want her to hurt me like she did the 1st time or so. My ma went out to get the rest of the groceries, so my ex talked to her. They exchanged hellos, and my ma was like u hurt him so much he doesnt wanna talk to u anymore. and she was like i know, im sorry, i had a bf that hurt me too. tell him im sorry. she wants to talk to me again. but i dont want to. i wanna make my move & hit her where it hurts and not go to her graduation so she will never forget how good i was to her.

what should i do?

thanks

~MW~
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Zotoaster
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Posted: 18th Apr 2009 22:59
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If she really hurt you that badly, then the best thing you can do for both of you is ignore her, and yes, that includes not going to her graduation. I don't know however how bad the situation is, so I can't say.
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Mugen Wizardry
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Posted: 18th Apr 2009 23:02
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right, she cheated on me about 11 times. (long story & theres a reason i let her do that), it was to make her think before she acts on relationships. i knew it would hurt worse than death. but, i dont know what to do..
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Gunn3r
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Posted: 18th Apr 2009 23:14
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Just don't hit her where it hurts like you said. Especially in Oregon. Under Measure 11, if you are under 18, and you assault someone, you can spend 10 years in prison. Probably not how you wanted to spend your life, I'm guessing.

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Mugen Wizardry
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Posted: 18th Apr 2009 23:27
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im not gonna hit her. its a figure of speech. "im gonna hit her where it hurts" means im not gonna go to her graduation.
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Mr Z
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Posted: 18th Apr 2009 23:30 Edited at: 18th Apr 2009 23:32
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You said you want to hurt her. I advice you to simply leave it behind you. She hurt you, the best thing you can do is to take care of yourself, focus on your needs, and don´t focus on her. She is not worth it. Not worth the energy to hurt back, not worth spending so energy on in general. So my advice is to just... step back, spend time on yourself. Not saying you should or shouldn´t talk to her, but you seem rather hurt, so maybe it is better if you step back now.

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Noticed you meant not going to her graduation when you said hitting her where it hurt. Do not say you should, as stated I think you might need time for yourself.

There is no greater virtue, then the ability to face oneself.
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kaedroho
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Posted: 18th Apr 2009 23:40 Edited at: 18th Apr 2009 23:45
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I suggest that you talk to her and see what she has to say at least. If she bes harsh to you, just ignore her for a while and if she likes you she will try and be friends in a nicer way (girls hate to be ignored). I was in a similar situation last week with my ex. Shes nicer to me now than she ever was.

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Mugen Wizardry
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Posted: 18th Apr 2009 23:50
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u guys r right. u know? i mean, im gonna do my best to learn magix music maker, and release a cd to all walmarts, targets, blah. and sell a cd in my name

thanks guys!
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bitJericho
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Posted: 19th Apr 2009 00:09
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Aye, it's always best not to make enemies. I'd let her apologize to you, and tell her that you aren't interested in a relationship with her (if that's what she's after).

You never know if one day you'll have to work with each other, it's best not to be enemies.

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Dragon Knight
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Posted: 19th Apr 2009 01:39 Edited at: 19th Apr 2009 01:43
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Quote: "she cheated on me about 11 times. "
what the hell is your malfunction? What are you scared encase you cannot get a girl, or did you get one-itis thinking to yourself oh she's the one.. blah blah

I would give you the best advice you can but you'll probably not listen anyway, just go out get with 6 other women simple as getting a slice of pie. (It's easier to pull six women in one night than it is to pull one) Don't get hung up on any particular girl and DON'T take it personally. Actually don't take ANYTHING bad personally it'll make your life allot less stress full . BUT you can take anything she says and say thanks

Anyway why are you getting bitchy over her, she's just a woman, she may have hurt you but get over it.

A list of some funny reply's to what women say:
Her: I love you. You: I love me as well
Her: I hate it when guys do *blah blah* You: I DO THAT ALL THE TIME!!!
Her: *Angry shouting* You: Heh you're cute when you're angry
Her: *Eating* You: You have something in your teeth don't worry about it though, it's cute xD
The responses to those sort of things off the top of my head have been hilarious.


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Mugen Wizardry
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Posted: 19th Apr 2009 02:19
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u know what jerk? back the heck off. Im tired of ppl like u who pick on me just because i ask a question.

u know what? mods, close this.
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bitJericho
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Posted: 19th Apr 2009 02:27
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Quote: "Her: I hate it when guys do *blah blah* You: I DO THAT ALL THE TIME!!! "


The best response to this when they're talking about you is to say "Ya, I hate that too".

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