Quote: "doesn't discuss grappling or throws / takedowns"
The system isnt (as you stated) isn't completely finished yet, although I would like to add that takedowns and grappeling techniques aren't always 100% effective in a live situation due to their complexety (Although I shall be including "The shoulder and hip throw in the next edition)
Quote: "no knees or push kicks"
Shall be covered in more detail duing the next edition, although in my opinion doesn't need much explaining. Simply:
Side kick/stomp kick to knee = splintered or broken leg. (End of confrontation)
Or...
Quick, sweeping kick aimed at the aggressors lower leg, taking his legs away from under him.
Knees (For use during close quaters)
A driving knee strike aimed at:
*The groin/bladder = Extremely painful for the aggressor and possible chance of serious injury from toxic shock syndrome if the bladder was ruptured.
*Solar plexus: Extreme pain & possible unconciousness.
Quote: "very typical for someone to grab your lapels, sleeves"
Okay, then the techniques used are the same. Strike the attacker in the eyes or other facial targets, or simply (if grabbed by lapel) strike upwards on the aggressors elbow joint.
Result = splintered elbow
Another effective method would be to simply cup one your hands slightly (much like a slap), and deliever a hard and swift slap to the side of the neck. This will cause temporary unconciousness from anywhere to 3-5 secconds, due to the strike to the carotid arteries (which regulate blood pressure and carry blood to the brain would be disrupted). This is also a non-letal technique.
Quote: "or otherwise impede you from using your hands"
In this case, knee/upwards slap to the groin would be efficent at releasing the aggressors hold. If however he is still hanging on to your arms, simply drive either foot down the agressors shin onto the top of his foot.
There is no specific method or "way" in self defence. You combine these techniques in whatever order to get the job done.
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