I can't remember the exact first time I really learned a language..
But I started with my grandfather's old C64 he gave to me when I was around 10 or 11.. I had no idea what I was doing but I took code from a star field, and code from a C64 balloon that would fall across the screen at an angle, and I made a program of a Baloon falling across a starfield - except it deleted whatever was in its path, LOL
I fooled around with BASIC/QBASIC.. But the first structured language of any significance I learned was probably HTML when I was around 12 or 13. I made random web sites for a while.
I went through a phase where I tried and failed to learn various languages in my teens.. I had even tried Darkbasic back then! Back when it had the like... 600 (I think) page downloadable documentation you could print out and that funky looking Full Screen Mode editor. Played around with RPG maker.
Rented books from the library on different languages. C++, Java, Python, and one or two others I don't think I can remember.
I got hung up on C++ because learning to use a compiler and all the strict rules really irritated me - and also I got hung up reading Sams C++ in 24 hours, on the math parts. I was so determined not to move forward in the book until I understood each section, that I torpedoed myself and gave up in frustration.
So now I'm about to turn 28..I really got into Python earlier this year and I really love the language and it feels so easy to read and understand (for the most part).. But I ultimately gave up on it because distributing an actual application, let alone just attaching it and its required dependencies to an EXE is such a hard task.. and I couldn't get past finding a way for non-blocking input on the command line (that I could understand)
Blitz Max has very sparse documentation and real learning examples to look at.. So it wasn't worth $80 to me - and I couldn't even figure out how to print to the screen without looking it up for 30 minutes... lol
Dark Game Studio was on sale... so I said what the heck... Picked up some plugins as well (Feel kind of burned on those purchases, except for DarkDATA as most of the stuff is useless to me).
So here I am! Was really frustrated for a while, and probably will be again real soon.. But doing my best to push ahead and learn while making my Text RPG.