Quote: "The only problem I see with this system is that everybody is different. Meaning there are things that I consider abusive that others might not consider abusive and some things that I tolerate that other people might consider abusive."
Sure, but if you feel like YOU'VE been abused, then you will know about it. If that other person "didn't mean it to sound that way" then they'll learn from it too (because if we agree it was abusive, they'll have a week ban to think it over). It's time to be a bit more considerate to others around here.
Quote: "hmm! hows about a clever sod who makes an offensive post and then edits it before you can respond?, or do you have a "history" you can check back on to see what was originaly posted?"
Doesn't matter, I have all message histories stored. Every edit is logged. You can't hide it.
Quote: "What would stop someone linking to the abuse button, giving the link a seemingly harmless name?"
Click it and see.
Seriously - if anyone is still thinking that by just pressing the button it starts off some automated report process, you're wrong. If you still think this - click it now and read what it says carefully.
Accidentally clicking it is NOT a problem. Just hit "back". You won't have done anything. In fact, if you've not read the abuse page, I urge you to do so now.
Cheers,
Rich
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