Quote: "Benjamin - Lots of religions discorage sexual thoughts outside of marriage and or the degredation of women through "sexy" promotional work. Can't say that I agree, but he's allowed his right to follow that without being called gay. I know you were just joking though
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There have been many misconceptions about this and
Catholicism/Christianity, so I'm here to present the fact. Sorry if this gets a little touchy, but it's my duty to address it regardless. PLEASE don't think I'm some bible preacher or something. I'm just a guy like the rest of you. I sin alot too. I kept starting at Diablos' avatar too (my imagination running wild at the same time - you really should take that off - it's distracting; nobody will ever read your threads
). So don't think of me something special.
Fact#1: Sex is not evil. Sex is the natural act of consumating a relationship. It is not evil; in fact, it is holy. Very very holy.
Fact#2: Sex before marriage is not good (except if you're engaged). This has nothing to do with the act itself. The fact that many couples just get together to have sex is wrong.
Sex is not purely physical as many people have grown to believe (thanks to obvious reasons; having sex before marriage promote this lack of respect). It is a spiritual unity between man and woman. The power of this can only be understood when you have experienced the true love of your partner and of course, the purest love of all, the love of God.
Fact#3: Lust is evil. It corrupts the heart. Think of it this way. By lusting after one another, we begin to lose our respect for sex and think that it's just some 'casual' thing that we humans do - WRONG! It is and always will be a very very powerful spiritual act. Continuous lust causes us to 'see' people naked and comitting a sexual act with us - don't you think (in common sense - no religious boundaries whatsoever) that this is kinda disgusting and perverted?! It sure is! It's not difficult to prevent lust but it's possible.
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Fact#4: Doing it for pleasure is not wrong so long as you participate in it respectfully (by the ways I mentioned above).
Fact#5: (This is a sensitive part) Pornography and masturbation are outruled by the Church not because 'God said it's bad'; people back in the day (of Christ or before) may very well have masturbated but God didn't punish them for it. The reason our Pope made it out to be sinful is again common sense. Times change and times during or before Christ are different than they are now. If you have never had a sexual experience and start once - it takes a lifetime to stop thanks to all those 'Ooo, Ooo, Ahh, Ahh' stuff on the TV and other sources. Porn is always bad since it causes lust (think about it; after watching those movies/pics for so long, don't you start to want to feel like
you ought to be or can be doing something like those in the movie?).
Another thing about marriage. IT IS NOT A DOCUMENT THAT SEALS SOME LEGAL CONTRACT!!! It's a very powerful (yes, 'very powerful') bind between the man and the woman that lasts for eternity.
Also about the Church's traditions and stuff. Those are just man-made traditions. We do them only to
remind us of the real thing. That is why we have statues and pictures and stuff - to visualise and direct our focus on to the person we are praying to. When saying "Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee..." it should be like we're saying it
to Mary herself. Some people (*raises hand*) find that difficult sometimes, so we have the pictures/statues to remind us and keep us focused.
Q&A: If you live a good life without praising God and going to Church you will go to Heaven. WRONG! You must go to Church to receive the body & blood of Christ, to praise God and also to confess our sins and cleanse our selves
Q&A: If you live a good life, praise God and all that, you will go to Heaven. WRONG AGAIN! You must carry out your mission too. Remember, this tiny earth that we'll be living in for, oh I don't know, say, 75 years on average is just a small pit-stop. We came from God, we've gotta go back to Him soon. This world is nothing compared to that. Having said that, don't go jumping off a cliff or killing yourself because you've still got a race to run and it must be run by you if you are to win back God's kingdom.
Also, with regard to corruption in the Church.
This is purely my opinion. Forget them! Forget all the officials (be it priests, mormons, whoever; I'm NOT saying they're corrupt though). Forget them all and focus on yourself. Don't go around in life nitpicking everything your neighbour does. Instead, make yourself a better man/woman/child. Just focus on completing your mission and on God. Your mission can be as simple as being nice to each other, or settling down and teaching your children good values etc.... Whatever it is, it is
VERY special so don't EVER turn your back on it.
A few other things have to be said about this but I can't fit it all in here. Maybe I should start my own thread on the subject...
Anyone think that's a bad idea? Please don't be shy - tell me
Thanks for reading and God Bless
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