Something like this is real tough. And I don't want it to divide this community. A lot of strong feelings come up, especially when an innocent wife and child are caught up in the devestation. It's important that we all respect each others feelings and have understanding and tollerance for different emotions.
None of us can tell others how to feel. None of us are wrong in this. I respect everyone's feelings on such a difficult and upsetting event of human unkindness. Let's not let a terrible situation cause in-fighting among us. I think it's important that we can all discuss real world matters, even when they are matters that are very difficult to understand. Sometimes this world is a cruel place, but for everyone of these acts, there are equal and opposite acts of kindness and courage.