lol Grandpa @ 21 damn your kids don't waste time to be players
generally i've found that when your mate people get to a point where they think they'll make a move and do something stupid like say ...
"oh i love and have done for years." cause they see it on TV and think the girl will be like "oh i was hoping you'd say that".
hehee, most ways i've foundit goes down you won't even realise it.
oki so perhaps the setup can take years than an overnight result, but you do have to ask yourself - do you just like this girl for how she looks, or do you like her because you fancy your long-term chances.
unfortunately you get that deep in its a bitch when they decide that they'll let you drown because they don't actually care.
i've had alot of relationships, some i've rushed into, some i spent years on without even realising. You rush into something without knowing someone as well as you think you do, and you would be a lucki guy to pull it off for anything particularly long.
you know the worst kind of relationship, is the one where you fall for a girl and all seems perfect for a while, but then something happens and you have no choice but to let them go because you know that although you love them to death, they don't care for you even slightly ... and what makes it harder is they will fight like hell to keep you there, and nothing would make you happier than to just break and wear a plastic smile pretend everything is cool - but underneath if you let that go on for long enough then you will die slowly, be changed into something that just repulses you.
i mean not to put a dampner on it or nothing hehee, then again ain't you like still in highschool - christ that ain't no time to be stepping around trying to get serious, or trying to hook a girl in to be like the one. You make friends with her, get keep her close as a friend, you make the bridges now and you will be finalising them over the summer i can guarentee you - remember that girls you like you should be willing to think about as a long-term plan, if they're worth waiting for then it is best to wait for them and know all of thier little nuiances ... nothing worse than not knowing that she has some terrible habit to punch perfect strangers or something until your together and actually have to fight people because they start on her (there is no way to be ambigious within a relationship, you take thier side else you will DEFINATELY hear about it)
that way you can just have those girls that you want purely because they are damn'd gorgeous - most of them have just god aweful personailities
sometimes get a nice and plesant one, but most are just brats.
(^_^) also its a good idea to watch for signals because girls do alot of things kinda like when a guy is all goofy, or trying to show off and stuff like that ... no doubt you know what guys do when they like girls, well girls tend to get nervous around people they like - hyperchatty (unfortunately on most that ain't much of a tip though lol) - they touch you alot in just casual chats, thats a good hint - i mean you notice them and alot of girls will be all touchy feeling with mates ... but very rarely around alot of guys. If they make very friendly gestures, like everytime you see them they have to hug you hello AND goodbye and they make sure that they always say goodbye, that is kinda an important one because if they stop what they're doing to say goodbye rather than just be like "yeah, later"
god i know like a million and one of these, what comes from knowing alot of girls lol ... Hair is another good one, if they keep looking towards the floor rather than directly at you all the time, or rather looking at you from a lower angle - it causes thier hair to fall, and rather than leave it they will always try to keep it neat all the time. obvious cases where you can't tell, but they'll still kinda try to shy they're actual attention away from you.
i mean next time you look at a girl, its kinda obvious when one like you and one doesn't - so much body language and little nuerocies lol
unfortunately i seem to have a personality that generally brings all of these out just by being me, so i get all of these signals and none of them are actually true lol
have to just be a little more observant than usual... best thing to do is see how she reacts towards you when ya'll are hanging with mates.
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