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Oneka
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Posted: 13th Sep 2007 03:33
Well, everyone else is talking about gf...

I just broke up with my Sept 10, 2007 well I didnt break up with her..but we arent going out anymore


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tha_rami
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Posted: 13th Sep 2007 03:36
Lol @ topic plus sucks @ Oneka. Better have it end in such a way than with a fight, right?

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Posted: 13th Sep 2007 03:37
Mods, QUICK, LOCK THIS, before it gets out of hand like the others.

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Oneka
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Posted: 13th Sep 2007 03:38
well she broke up with me for another dude..


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tha_rami
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Posted: 13th Sep 2007 03:40
Auch. That sucks... She didn't cheat on you, did she?

Anyway, I guess you'll find someone else over time .

Pyramid Games Ltd
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Posted: 13th Sep 2007 04:13
OMG good you didn't have sex with her! Well that's it I have already sparked something that will go out of control.

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Posted: 13th Sep 2007 04:13
just think, youll have more time to run the camp now....

http://www.oneka.com/main.html

and theres girls there!

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Zombie 20
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Posted: 13th Sep 2007 04:14
Not yet you haven't..


Oneka- I am very sorry to hear about your break-up, unfortuanely these things happen and it hurts, I wish you the very best in your life, keep looking for that light beyond the blackness..you'll find your dreamgirl, I promise you and hey it might turn out to be your old girlfriend.

Best,

Zombinos

tha_rami
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Posted: 13th Sep 2007 04:15
Oh... Dear... God...

That's a 1-hit-KO link in discussions.

Pyramid Games Ltd
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Posted: 13th Sep 2007 04:20
Come on!! Let's flip this thread upside down!

Zombie 20
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Posted: 13th Sep 2007 04:25
but why? We already have the new gf thread to mess around in, that one's ending in less than 300 messages anyway, focus on that one. Don't worry pyramid, you'll ample oppurtunity to destroy threads that I make, most of them are silly anyway except for the I'm in Love one, very serious there.

Oneka
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Posted: 13th Sep 2007 04:49
I want to die..I just...its too much..I just overall am expierencing failure..first I lost my house, my job, my girlfriend and I have succumbed to knowing that I cant finish Daikanu Online...I dont really have any friends...suicide just sounds so nice...but I cant ever do it..I just wish I could wake up being someone else..


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Posted: 13th Sep 2007 04:56 Edited at: 13th Sep 2007 04:57
Quote: "I want to die..I just...its too much..I just overall am expierencing failure..first I lost my house, my job, my girlfriend and I have succumbed to knowing that I cant finish Daikanu Online...I dont really have any friends...suicide just sounds so nice...but I cant ever do it..I just wish I could wake up being someone else.."


Dude, dont talk like that, thats not the way to be... soon it will all be over and your life will be back on track.

Plus my gf just broke up with me to... i really want her back but she has another bf right now
tha_rami
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Posted: 13th Sep 2007 04:57
Set it all straight Oneka. Making dreams possible in real life requires some bughunting too. Like with coding, all goes line by line, error by error, but in the end everything'll work out.

Don't give up, keep going, determination gets you a long way in life.

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Posted: 13th Sep 2007 04:59
listen to tha_rami

never give up, ever
Bizar Guy
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Posted: 13th Sep 2007 05:03 Edited at: 13th Sep 2007 05:04
Whoa! dude, don't talk like that! Whatever is wrong, you can always get through it. Suicide is never a good solution. Life has ups and downs, and life never stays in a down as long as you live it.

I've had suicidal urges, but not matter how depressing, things get better. anything is better than nothing, no matter how it seems.

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Posted: 13th Sep 2007 05:03
Oneka, life's punching you in the balls.

You have two options:

1. You can stay down and avoid further pain as it slowly goes away
2. You can get up and roll with the punches

I advise you chose 2.

Reason? Choosing option 1 is obviously an odd choice... Your going to have trouble getting food. You wont find any shelter if you laying right on the ground like that. Option 1 only leads to so, so many more problems.

Option 2 is the right choice. Why? Life takes its turns at people. Its not consecutive at the same person. For instance, it just punched you in the balls. Maybe now it'll go to the other side of the world and punch some other guy in the balls. Your not the only one.

Whats important is you have all that time while life's punching others in the balls to shape back up, and live the life you love.

Meh. Signatures. Lame :p
Mr Tank
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Posted: 13th Sep 2007 05:03
It's better to have loved and lost, than never to have loved at all, apparently.

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Megaton Cat
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Posted: 13th Sep 2007 05:04
Um...get a new girlfriend?

Dr Schnitzengruber
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Posted: 13th Sep 2007 05:06
OH NO, The chain reaction has started, This thread will go on and on.

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GatorHex
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Posted: 13th Sep 2007 05:55 Edited at: 13th Sep 2007 07:10
Don't kill yourself.. crud happens, thats life. (we've all been there, the first is the worst)

Like they say "plenty more fish in the sea" and you will meet another fish that is nicer than the last smelly old trout you went out with

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Posted: 13th Sep 2007 06:05 Edited at: 13th Sep 2007 06:06
Well whenever I get dumped and go through bad times the best thing to do is take a day off. Relax, maybe eat a tube of Ice cream or watch some comedy. As they say comedy can cure anything (or something more catchy, eh you get the point) but don't say that stuff. I thought of that bad crap before over myself, but just think about all the good things in life. I mean, hey you say you don't have many friends, but what about the people here at the TGC forum. We all care about you and we are your friends.

We all want to be awesome, but does awesome want to be us?
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Posted: 13th Sep 2007 06:58
But seriously, meeting new girls is the best way to get over girls. So get out there, and don't mention anything to do with programming!

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Posted: 13th Sep 2007 10:04
Oneka please don't kill yourself, this is not the way to do it mate, there are many pathways to help you. I'm going to be very gentle with you here, I know you're in a intense situation with your feelings right now and yes it hurts, you're not alone, e-mail me if you wish to speak more privately about this, I have helped friends out of suicidal attitudes and I will sit and listen to what you have to say if you feel like sharing, it will be all up to you though. I'm here whenever you need to talk though.

Zombie

Mike Inel
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Posted: 13th Sep 2007 10:16 Edited at: 13th Sep 2007 13:17
My opinion and advice: Don't get a GF...
That's what I did for 19 years, and look at me now. Since no one's bothering me on what i'm doing, i'm improving myself a lot and i'm able to finish my job on time.
The down-part is that you'll get obsessed w/ sexy chicks that you'll end up making a lesbian easteregg! LOL!
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Don't give-up man... Just think "If others are better than you, you can surpass them. Who are they? They're just humans..."
Wait, I think that's off topic...
Think that "You only got one single life and you'll waste it... That's just stupid... It's like ripping a 1 million check..."
Besides, i've heard a lot of people who planned of committing suicide, but end up not doing it... I'm sure you're one of them...
-.-

Nicholas Thompson
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Posted: 13th Sep 2007 11:32
Quote: "you'll end up making a lesbian easteregg"


Ahhh the images...

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Posted: 13th Sep 2007 12:17
If your under the age of 16 then I am sure you will survive, I remember back in the day, I was 'in love' all the time.

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Pyramid Games Ltd
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Posted: 13th Sep 2007 14:43
Dude, killing yourself will solve nothing....

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Posted: 13th Sep 2007 18:29
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OK, no more GF threads. DIE gf threads.
Just kidding. Now if your that bad, just le on the grund luking uop atr thef sky ands the stars rand khusdfsyukdf yukbgfykjugftysdfuy gfxh hf hy chhbfkfgdhfhdh...

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Zotoaster
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Posted: 13th Sep 2007 18:33
Anyone else notice he's not replied in a while?

Just kidding.

I know how it feels. Broke up with my GF, she's going out with anything guy (didn't cheat though). We're still friends though. Took me a few weeks to get over it. I really loved her more than any other previous girlfriend, but one night, I had a lovely dream of someone in my school, and my feelings for my old girlfriend went instantly. I was a bit pissed off because I wanted to love her, but I was happy that I was over her at the same time.

"It's like floating a boat on a liquid that I don't know, but I'm quite happy to drink it if I'm thirsty enough" - Me being a good programmer but sucking at computers
Sid Sinister
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Posted: 13th Sep 2007 19:58
Eh, yea, I know how you feel man. I went out with a girl for a year and a half and then she broke up with me. The week after, she lost her virginity to some bloke who didn't care about her. Made me feel like absolute crap.

Life goes on though my friend and soon your appetite will return and the cold sinking feeling in your chest will go away. I've been single for a year now after the breakup and I kind of like it now actually. Sometimes being tied down is sufficating. Just try to breath a few times and you might like it. I don't even miss her now. I don't even talk to her anymore.

Anyway, hope that helps



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Posted: 13th Sep 2007 22:17
Dude, I once had a girlfriend leave me for a *gay* guy. Believe me, your situation could always be worse

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I hope she didn't go out with you for the same reason Jeku

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Posted: 13th Sep 2007 22:26
Quote: "I hope she didn't go out with you for the same reason Jeku "


Ohh I felt that one.

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Posted: 13th Sep 2007 22:45
Dude, I once had a girlfriend leave me for a *gay* girl. Believe me, your situation could always be worse

Well.. she was hotter than me, at least. Just kidding.

Oneka. Voices that come from outside of your skin may miss the pain. They may sound too simplistic. But we are serious when we say things to place you up on your feet. For more stupid and superficial these thigs sound, we want you happy again and being silly around.

Be well.

Cheers.

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Posted: 14th Sep 2007 06:56
Quote: "Dude, I once had a girlfriend leave me for a *gay* guy. Believe me, your situation could always be worse "


Ouch. That's new.

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Posted: 14th Sep 2007 08:11
Quote: "Anyone else notice he's not replied in a while?"

Did he just--
Nah, that's impossible!

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Posted: 14th Sep 2007 10:24
I seriously hope he didn't.

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Posted: 14th Sep 2007 10:48 Edited at: 14th Sep 2007 10:48
Humm, i doubt. He may also be reading this and just playing around or he's actually a busy person and don't have time to read the forums and press F5 all day.

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Zombie 20
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Posted: 14th Sep 2007 11:49
Well all I have to say is if he's messing around, he'd better hope I don't see him in person.

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I don't think he's messing around.

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Quote: "I hope she didn't go out with you for the same reason Jeku"

Ooooh... ouch.

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Posted: 14th Sep 2007 20:19
Dude oneka how old are u hmm let me guess under 21? Well well will life is getting u down life is unfair u are completly right it is very unfair but i wont tell u not to kill urself and i wont tell u to kill urself either but i will give u some advice i rather live a good , righteous life on this earth then go to eternity that's in english is life after death go to some place that is hot dark alone scarry unfriendly unforunate everlasting ( forever) pain suffering let that choice be up to u have fun picking what u do its ur decision and urs alone. Also if u commit suicide post it on u tube it would get alot of peoples attention of the going through the same thing and will benefit others just kidding lol........

Winner my a longshot!
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Posted: 14th Sep 2007 20:21
what were is my post hmm suspicious oneka i bet is playing with u guys.

Winner my a longshot!
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Posted: 14th Sep 2007 20:24
Quote: "Dude oneka how old are u hmm let me guess under 21? Well well will life is getting u down life is unfair u are completly right it is very unfair but i wont tell u not to kill urself and i wont tell u to kill urself either but i will give u some advice i rather live a good , righteous life on this earth then go to eternity that's in english is life after death go to some place that is hot dark alone scarry unfriendly unforunate everlasting ( forever) pain suffering let that choice be up to u have fun picking what u do its ur decision and urs alone."


What? >.< Your message is hard to read.

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Posted: 14th Sep 2007 20:39
Hahahah I stole onekas' g/f
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Posted: 14th Sep 2007 20:50
Quote: "Hahahah I stole onekas' g/f "


And i stole yours.. -.-

Seriously not funny.. If someone is broke and you are just joking around with things that could hurt more..

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Posted: 14th Sep 2007 20:51
Quote: "what were is my post hmm suspicious oneka i bet is playing with u guys."


....I thought people spoke english in Ohio.


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Posted: 14th Sep 2007 20:54 Edited at: 14th Sep 2007 20:57
OMG this went in the wrong thread [edit]

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Mike Inel
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Posted: 14th Sep 2007 23:51
Quote: "If someone is broke and you are just joking around with things that could hurt more.."

Well he better reply for us to be sure if it's a serious matter!

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