Hmm. Where is the remote site you FTPing to? If it is an ISP's website they will always be on port 21 and there is no way you can change it. If it is your own server somewhere you can configure FTP to use whatever port you want. DBPro doesn't have a port parameter when you connect though, so assuem it defaults to 21. Doubt you can just tag port number on end (but may be wrong!).
I'm at work at mo, but will try tonight as I have my own FTP server software installed.
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