1)Development-DarkBASIC,DarkBASIC Pro,3D Gamemaker
3D Gamemaker isn't really a "development" tool. DB Pro is "better" in the overall scheme of things, but then it's also a more complex animal. As Zircher says, it's a very subjective question.
2)Graphics-Are these any good? Texture Maker, Video Deluxe
Well...texture maker is for textures, which I would not strictly categorise as a Graphics Package, more of a specific Tool. Video Deluxe is for, well...video! These are 2 apps that suit completely different requirements, you can't compare one with the other.
What "graphics" are you trying to create? Vector/Bitmap/Animation/Text based/Business/Illustration/Presentation...
3)3D Modelling-DarkMATTER 1&2,Cartography Shop,3D Canvas Pro
Darkmatter I/II aren't modelling packages, they are collections of models.