Best bet is to work with GMax until you're ready for Studio Max.(and can afford it too!)
Personally, since I can't afford Max, I went with Truespace5.2. I really like it, and it works well with darkbasic.(I also use it in combination with lithunwrap for texture jobs.) Personally, I havn't done much animation with TS5.2, but it's really easy to extract the animation and add bones to it. Calgari makes it so easy, it's not even funny. Unfortuantly, I've not yet been able to get the animations into DBP.(Models work fine, animations no)
Not to say that it's not impossible.
http://www.theothersideworks.com/ts.htm
(these tutorials show you how to export your .X models with the IK animations)
Many people fear the interface in TS, which is a shame. I remember telling others on the forum that I disliked the interface, and it was confusing. I decided not to give up on TS, put in about 4 more hours, and the interface was a dream. It's probebly the most efficient modeler/animator/texturer out there. No need to fumble through menus when the button is right there.
Truespace(5.2 and up) also has a great render for radiosity, and all kinds of good stuff.
I'd recommend buying it as soon as possible.(too bad, Thanksgiving day sale ends after tomorrow I believe.TS5.2 for $149)
For more info.
http://www.caligari.com/ Also download the trial version, to get the full taste.(Or if nothing, the free full version of 3.2. Check the caligari website, or downloads.com)
A book? I hate book. Book is stupid.