Quote: "im willing to bet that DBP doesnt work on computers that dont have DX9 for hardware."
The hardware does not have to support all of the DX9 features, but the driver must be compatible with DirectX 9. The Xabre 400 is indeed a rubbish graphics card, however, its specifications certainly match what DBPro requires and although it is slightly unusual, it should work.
On older graphics cards, you might get much better framerates in Full Screen Exclusive mode rather than Windowed Fullscreen mode. You will need to download the DBPro trial version, and open up the source code for one of the examples, play around with the Display Mode setting in the editor (Project Manager on right-hand side of screen) and see if it makes any difference.
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