code2kill ... just check back through the forum, i'm sure the further back in time you go you'll notice something.
although it is becomming more apparent now to more people than just myself.
It isn't so much oldie burn-out, although I agree that this can be a factor sometimes, most oldies no longer try to help those posts they've seen so many times before now.
At this point really the people who dominate this forum are just jerks.
I mean just look at how all of the guys who joined before 2003 talk and interact with each other; on the whole they're definately alot more friendly than those who joined after. And this is where the main attitude to newbies has come from i'm afriad.
If you look back to post against before 2003 (just before christmas even, 1-2nd weeks of December 2002); just notice how the newbies are treated and how there hadn't been a single flamewar.
(no seriously there hadn't, even with el diablo of RGT 'me')
the whole setup just went to show that certain members of the darkbasic community
SHOULD be kept apart, and I respect this which is why even though I have an account of LLRGT; my posts are very very few and far between.
some people want a forum free of me, and i want a forum free of them; we can interact for short amounts of time friendly but prolonged exposure usually ends up causing problems.
unfortunately there are a number of users who just don't understand the whole 'balance of things', and when newbies see them attacking someone who seems to be a more prodominant member of the community; they start to believe that this is just how this forum works.
the same goes for the older users abusing the newbies; they just believe that because they see other users doing it, that it's fine for them. Status quo as you will (no, not the band)
Monkey see, monkey do i'm afraid. Until these dominant older users start to behave themselves, this problem is only going to get worse as the newbies doing it become older users.
but i agree with Indi, it is disheartening to see some newbie demanding you help them than requesting it. after all for most of us this is just a hobby not our job.