Quote: "Lightwave or 3ds max?"
If you have to ask the question then your not ready to use either.
The whole point in purchasing a professional package is so that you have a larger array of tools to create your work with so if you have the knowlage on how to use them you can make work alot quicker.
Using_Professional_Modelling_Packer != Give_User_More_Talent
Asking questions like this are just going to get me to answer like this... simple fact of the matter is,
'If you have to ask, your not ready.'
I have been saying that alot recently, but quite frankly it is extremely annoying to see people believing they can get something and it'll instantly make them awesome when they'll produce the exact same results they could get from a freebie. Further more NO ONE can tell YOU what YOU like...
Personally speaking I prefer Maya; but over the past 4years I've had to use 3D Studio Max in my job. I dislike that program, with a vengence, always have and always will. Unlike you, I didn't have a choice on purchasing it and/or using it.
Do I think $3,200 is worth it for a package I don't even like??
Hell no, I thought it was a ripp-off at the student price of $500; but the fact of the matter is that is MY personal opinion and no one elses.
I'm sure if Moondog was in this forum he'd praise 3D Studio Max; and if you asked Psionic he'll say that Cinema4D is one of the better packages; or Arras will say Maya.
These are because these are what WE prefer. If you want a technically superior program, that is a different question to ask.
But there is no such thing as 'The Best' program for a task.
Just take a look at the Basic Languages;
Blitz3D, PureBASIC, DarkBASIC... Most here use DB (probably cause this is thier support forums

), but why do we use it and not one of the other Basics?
Majoritively because we prefer how DB works, acts and looks.
PureBASIC is the most technically advanced:
Blitz3D is the most technically stable with a fast 3D Engine:
DarkBASIC Professional simply has the most features packed into it:
No one told you what was the best, and no one can tell you what you'll like.
Seems stupid people are willing to spend hundred/thousands of dollars on programs that they don't have the first clue about.