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Geek Culture / my stepdad died 2 years ago this night

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indi
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Posted: 11th Nov 2004 22:30
he was hit by a south american kid in a ute or a pickuptruck for you yanks,on a motorbike,accident only,
killed him virtually instantly. Im drunk and drinking for him, have one for me.My real dad was an ass who beat me up until i was 18 and I slammed him hard into the pool at 19. u got it tough when u live my life, grew up in a car while my mum slaved in restaurants and had no childhood after 10 years old, looking after my bro. live life while u can, its golden.

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flibX0r
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Posted: 11th Nov 2004 22:32
man, indi, i'd have a drink for you, but i have exams, and i'm not legally allowed to


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Ian T
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Posted: 11th Nov 2004 22:37
I'll have a (non-alchoholic ) drink for you and your integrity, indi .

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Kain
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Posted: 11th Nov 2004 22:49
Man that sucks indi, I'll go have one for ya. Its too depressing to drink alone.

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Posted: 11th Nov 2004 23:05 Edited at: 11th Nov 2004 23:21
Here's to your dad Indi - I'll be sure to put some beer in that cup tommorow.


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Posted: 11th Nov 2004 23:28
I see why you were into Joy division. Best of luck to a good future

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Hamish McHaggis
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Posted: 11th Nov 2004 23:31
I'm holding my cuppa right now .

My cousin died in a car accident no more than a few months ago, I didn't really know him that well so I can't really compare, but it kinda brings you back to earth. You never know when your time will come...

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Posted: 12th Nov 2004 00:27


If it were legal I would drink for you.

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Posted: 12th Nov 2004 00:42
Heres to you indi

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Posted: 12th Nov 2004 00:42
Sorry to hear that Indi.
I'll have a drink for you and your Dad next time I'm out.

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Posted: 12th Nov 2004 02:00
Indi, Ill knock back a beer for you on Saturday. Rock on m8.


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Posted: 12th Nov 2004 02:28
Today's a stat holiday, so I'll drink to you and your dad


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Posted: 12th Nov 2004 02:30
At least your dad was around, mine disappeared for a few years then came back a drunk. But mine never hit me, and it's in his best interest to never try. I'll have a drink too, as long as you're not drinking wild turkey.

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Posted: 12th Nov 2004 02:42
I'll drink to you too, coke of course. My Dad nearly died about a year ago (I think it was about the time I joined here actually) so I kinda know what it's like.

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Posted: 12th Nov 2004 03:14
I'll drink for your dad, and my dad, and the little lepricaun in my shoe. Man, will I ever be drunk!

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Posted: 12th Nov 2004 07:27
cheers guys

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Posted: 12th Nov 2004 09:37
It really would be in your best interest not to release that sort of information about yourself on the internet.


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Posted: 12th Nov 2004 11:55 Edited at: 12th Nov 2004 11:56
I, the King of Hot-Dogs and Sad Music, declare this the most depressing of all posts.



[PS] - Not really an alcohol drinker, so I'm having a Cherry Pepsi in your honor, Indi.


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Posted: 12th Nov 2004 12:23
Indi, you are one hardcore dude.



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Posted: 12th Nov 2004 12:30
I can't compare at all, I've had a near perfect life, but you have my deepest regrets.


Quote: "It really would be in your best interest not to release that sort of information about yourself on the internet."


Do you honestly think something's going to happen because people know a little bit about his life?


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Posted: 12th Nov 2004 20:57
Exeat, this is why threads get poorer.. you shouldn't bother qouting that. Keep the thread going.

If I could remember, I suppose I would drink to me having a dad looking after me in times of need, and not having fights or shouting at each other.

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Posted: 12th Nov 2004 21:11
Quote: "Exeat, this is why threads get poorer.. you shouldn't bother qouting that. Keep the thread going."


I'm making a clear point to HZence that revealing a little bit about your personal life isn't going to cause harm to anybody. Some people are paranoid about even telling their name over the internet because they're afraid stalkers might find out who they are, however, in reality this is incredibly unlikely as many people have the same name. You should only really be concerned if you give out your address, and even then, it's improbable that people are going to come after you. I'm sure Indi's quite capable of assessing any risk involved with him making the above post. The point I'm trying to make is that I'm not trolling, I have some valid points about a serious issue in this modern age that I wish to make clear.

In regard to your comment, who's to say that a thread is going to be 'poorer' because it's stemming in a different direction? If we all stuck to the one topic then the Forums would be filled with hundreds of significantly shorter threads. Likewise, even if the discussion does go a different way, all users are still able and should feel inclined to post a reply to the original subject and give Indi their regards. It’s only natural that the subject matter of a thread will change many times in its lifetime and it’s not something that should be prevented, we are just simply communicating on a casual forum, are we not?


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Posted: 12th Nov 2004 21:44
Quote: " I can't compare at all, I've had a near perfect life"


I'm in the same situation, although my uncle died last month so i kinda know how indi feels.

Quote: "If we all stuck to the one topic then the Forums would be filled with hundreds of significantly shorter threads"


And we would need less moderators


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Posted: 12th Nov 2004 23:05
@Exeat: No, that's not what I meant at all. I'm just saying, you really don't know any of these people, and you should really ask yourself if it's worth revealing personal information such as the above. It could end up coming back to bite you in the @$$.


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Posted: 13th Nov 2004 00:00
If indi was a kid, that comment would be relevant, but he's among the more mature members of the board so it really doesn't matter. If I was into messing with peoples' lives, personally, I would not want to mess with any tough Aussie outbacker no matter how much info I had

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Posted: 13th Nov 2004 02:23
this one's to you, indi's stepdad...
and one for indi too

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Posted: 13th Nov 2004 02:59
Can't drink, I'll have a Coke for you and your stepdad

Cheers indi

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Posted: 13th Nov 2004 10:26
Quote: "@Exeat: No, that's not what I meant at all. I'm just saying, you really don't know any of these people, and you should really ask yourself if it's worth revealing personal information such as the above. It could end up coming back to bite you in the @$$."


Ahh, I understand you now. I still think it's fine for him to tell us a little about his life, it's better then keeping his emotions bottled up. And like Mouse says, Indi's one of the older and more mature members of the forum, he knows what he's doing... hopefully when he's drunk too.


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Posted: 13th Nov 2004 16:25
I don't do alcohol, but I'll have a root beer for you and your stepdad

Cheers to ya, indi!

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Posted: 14th Nov 2004 01:04
cheers guys, I was drunk and shared a thought, Im happy to share that tidbit, because it made me sad enough to comment about it.

I dont claim to have fathomless armour and netiquette and sometimes things get to me to, albeit the big ones.

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Posted: 14th Nov 2004 01:57
There's nothing wrong with posting about stuff like that, in fact I'd say its a very good way of getting it out of your system.

@indi: I hope you feel better now, if you ever come to Ireland, drop by the pub where I work, and I'll give you a free

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Posted: 14th Nov 2004 19:37
Heh.

1 free beer compared to the flight from Australia.

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Posted: 14th Nov 2004 19:42
Its sad to hear that indi

Heres to you and your stepdad, mate!

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Posted: 14th Nov 2004 23:53
@Mnem: 1 free beer, I never mentioned how much of any other drinks he'd get

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Posted: 15th Nov 2004 08:37
I'm sorry to hear man (also for being so late to read this thread). My deepest sympathies for you, indi.

May your stepdad rest in peace and your real one in pieces.
I understand where you're coming from and all.

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