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Geek Culture / MMO=bad for life

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Jimmy
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Posted: 9th Nov 2005 23:43
or vocal cords

Drew Cameron
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Posted: 9th Nov 2005 23:47
You need balls to ask out a girl, but not to talk to them me thinks

Well, depends whether you like the girl or not etc..

Never mind.

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Posted: 10th Nov 2005 00:08
Quote: " You need balls to ask out a girl, but not to talk to them me thinks"


I would have to say it's more of an opposite. You need balls to approach a girl in the first place (especially if she doesn't know you exist), then it's easy to ask them out.

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Posted: 10th Nov 2005 01:28
you only need balls the first few times, after that it becomes pretty easy, unless its like, the girl of your dreams, then you freak out

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Posted: 10th Nov 2005 01:31 Edited at: 10th Nov 2005 01:33
Quote: "Moderation in all things... that applies to food, life, girls, gaming, programming, music, and EVERYTHING I KNOW"

Cut out girls, programming, and music, and you're exactly right...oh and life...


Quote: "Just go for the strong silent image, ya'know?"

Heh i got that one down pat. But some people in my school think I'm soft cuz im white. Doesn't make sense to me, but oh well...

Quote: "you only need balls the first few times, after that it becomes pretty easy, unless its like, the girl of your dreams, then you freak out"


Hmmm...thats quite true. But when it comes to girls, you gotta let them come to you. And when they do, act like its nothing but inside scream out "YES YES YES YES YES!"

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Posted: 10th Nov 2005 01:52
Rule #1: Do not mention you know how to program
Rule #2: Do not mention you are a member of an internet forum about programming
Rule #3: Do not mention you got dating advice off of an internet forum about programming
Rule #4: Do not mention any MMO's
Rule #5: Do not mention how "cool" it is to make video games
Rule #6: Do not mention anything about video-games in general
Rule #7: Stay away from technology all together unless your talking cell phones or some other thing she may not think is geeky
Rule #8: T-shirt(no jinx crap), and jeans, dont go buy a bunch of brand name crap, cuz all you'll do is make yourself look gay
Rule #9: Use your 7th grade vocabulary please, all im sayin is that anything above that will come off geeky to a chick

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Insanity Complex
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Posted: 10th Nov 2005 02:45
True...True indeed. What's funny is I'm in 9th grade...and few people here have above a 6th grade vocabulary

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Posted: 10th Nov 2005 02:52
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Posted: 10th Nov 2005 02:55
I do! I do!

It's one of those pulimnary-leo/t'chisk'quibc-gadget-thingamajigs!

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Posted: 10th Nov 2005 03:04
wow i can talk to girls just fine its like I got regected once and now im like scardzor idk if they like me or not. and if i do get denied im like ahhhhh dam
Undercover Steve
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Close! It is a random thing.

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Posted: 10th Nov 2005 04:18
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Rule #3: Do not mention you got dating advice off of an internet forum about programming
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Haha! That would probably not go over well

Quote: "
Rule #6: Do not mention anything about video-games in general
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Well, my wife let me play the Final Fantasy VIII love song, Eyes On Me, during our wedding ceremony. Haha--- so geeky

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Rule #9: Use your 7th grade vocabulary please, all im sayin is that anything above that will come off geeky to a chick
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Nonono--- the good ones respect you for your noggin'. Who wants an idiot boyfriend?!

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Posted: 10th Nov 2005 04:21
The slutty girls who want to stab back at their ex

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Drew Cameron
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Posted: 10th Nov 2005 09:50
Quote: "I would have to say it's more of an opposite. You need balls to approach a girl in the first place (especially if she doesn't know you exist), then it's easy to ask them out."


Oh, okay so we're working with the example that you don't actually know the girl. But then, should you ask her out if you don't even know her?

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Posted: 10th Nov 2005 11:08
I realise I'm the exception here, but I'm going out with a games programmer. We're as geeky as it gets.

Not for me, the boy-racers and club-goers. Yuck.
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Posted: 10th Nov 2005 11:35 Edited at: 10th Nov 2005 11:36
The best thing about geekier girls is that you can just be honest, like as long as you've got something interesting to talk about they're much easier to talk to than the non-geek. Of course the problem then is that it's much more difficult to find geeky women because they prefer to stay home. Maybe once a month there should be a geek night in some clubs, like how some American gyms have women only nights. They could fill the dance floor with retro arcade machines - how's ''Fancy a game of bust-a-move'' for a chat up line!.


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Posted: 10th Nov 2005 13:31 Edited at: 10th Nov 2005 13:32
Quote: "Use your 7th grade vocabulary please, all im sayin is that anything above that will come off geeky to a chick"
what i meant by this was try not to use uber-uncommon words, like uber. Dont speak like an idiot, but dont talk like your a frickin thesaurous either

Quote: "Well, my wife let me play the Final Fantasy VIII love song, Eyes On Me, during our wedding ceremony. Haha--- so geeky "
my advice was pretty much only bout askin her out, or the first date kinda thing, your eventually gonna have to slowly let her know your a geek

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Jeku
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Posted: 10th Nov 2005 17:47
Quote: "Oh, okay so we're working with the example that you don't actually know the girl. But then, should you ask her out if you don't even know her?"


Well, eventually, yes. I used to ask girls on dates after just meeting them--- friendly coffee dates or something like that--- but it's not like in Seinfeld where Jerry and George was with a different woman every episode. It's nothing but tough love in the real world, I'm afraid.

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Posted: 10th Nov 2005 17:54
Quote: "Well, my wife let me play the Final Fantasy VIII love song, Eyes On Me, during our wedding ceremony. Haha--- so geeky"

I wanted to play the Huryle-theme on mine.

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Posted: 10th Nov 2005 19:32 Edited at: 10th Nov 2005 19:35
Rule of thumb: Try not to look like you're about to face the firing squad when asking out that girl...

The worst that can happen is a "No". Although, no girl says a direct "No" you will get answers that vary in "Busy", "Life" or "Already got one".

Once you repeat this to yourself dozens of times, you can convince yourself it makes sense!

Quote: "you gotta let them come to you."


You watch too much Anime. Unless your name is Brad Pitt, or you're a local superhero, I wouldn't rely on this advice.


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Posted: 10th Nov 2005 21:53 Edited at: 10th Nov 2005 21:57
Quote: "Rule #9: Use your 7th grade vocabulary please, all im sayin is that anything above that will come off geeky to a chick"


Why would you want a girl you can't talk to properly?

I mean, your other rules, kinda make sense, (especially number three there), on that first date sorta meeting, but eh... 7th grade vocabulary? Please. You'll end up making her think you're stupid.

... but..
Don't go around talking like Shakespear either


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Posted: 10th Nov 2005 22:25
@jerico2day: try and read all the new posts b4 posting urslef, there wasnt that many:

this was in a following post of mine:
Quote: "Quote: "Use your 7th grade vocabulary please, all im sayin is that anything above that will come off geeky to a chick"
what i meant by this was try not to use uber-uncommon words, like uber. Dont speak like an idiot, but dont talk like your a frickin thesaurus either"



Quote: "Quote: "you gotta let them come to you."

You watch too much Anime. Unless your name is Brad Pitt, or you're a local superhero, I wouldn't rely on this advice.
"

no kidding, chance are, your not gonna get the girl of your dreams by siiting on ur fat a** playing WoW and wait for the 5'7" 110lbs blond hair blue eyed girl to come up and ask you out

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Posted: 10th Nov 2005 22:40
The problem is, the majority of teenage girls DO talk like 7th graders.


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Posted: 10th Nov 2005 23:09
yeah and the problem is not to many high school chicks are "geeky"

/cry

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Hello.. my name is Louiz..
I felt this way before.. I have self control now..

The problem is:
_ You get bored by just playing anything..
. It doesn't matter if it is MMO or Single player..
_ It works like a drug for some people, 'cause:
.they get bored by playing a game for too long..
.else if they find the game amazing, they keep playing for even more long..
.If the game is really amazing, MANY OTHER THINGS may sound not boring things..
_ Some people just get 'held' by those *possibilities* that they stop seeing at some time..

So it works like a drug:
_ That *amazing game is now boring for you.. so everything else is boring..
_ Then you lose grip, you lose that enthusiasm..

_ you die.. j/k


Simple solution:
_ get self control..
_ don't use the PC for so long (most people get bored and think that using isn't worthy)..
_ start new hobbies:
..physical activities
..cine
..just walk around, breathe..
..dedicate more time to your girl

At the beginning, try using the computer for only 2 ours a day..
Start learning new things (I started learnng C# to recover my enthusiasm)..
Never give up on the old things..
(give up on MMO only )

I felt this way about 3 years ago..


Never.. never set focus on only one thing..
At gameMaking: your progress will slow down, but you will never give up on projects anymore..
And I bet that it happened to you for some times

"blah blah"
Sorry.. I'll stop here..



:Louiz:


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Quote: "@jerico2day: try and read all the new posts b4 posting urslef, there wasnt that many:"


Reading is so overrated.


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Quote: "yeah and the problem is not to many high school chicks are "geeky""
not geeky, but smart, one of my best *female* friends who ive had a major crush on since god knows when, is 5'7" blonde hair, blue eyes, and about 115lbs, and she gets better grades than i do, im gonna ask her to the winter formal this year

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I told:
"..dedicate more time to your girl"

Oh! I didn't see that he hasn't a girlfriend ^^
Just go there do what you have to do

And never mention programming/games

Take care.. it isn't that difficult, come on
Good luck..

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Soldat: We downloaded that at school and played LAN during break after lunch - had a LAN Party one time - lots of fun!

I just got WoW - Its pretty addicting I must say Lvl 9 Undead Rogue on Shattered Hand - Guild = Denazorz Had many addictions in the past, gladly nothing like cigs/alcohol/drugs Played CS, GuildWars, Prison Tale, now WoW Oh and of course, DB is an addiction (but a healthly one that helps with your career )

If you want to get off it - just delete the game and give away your account. Simple as that. Other ways are just limit your time spent to only a few hours, or have a parent help. Kick you off the game when your times up.


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in all seriousness, a girlfriend will really help you

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Imperial Propaganda.

Cats will really help you conquer the Nation.


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I play 1-3 hours of games a day and my grades are just fine... Try limiting yourself to 1 1/2- 2 hours a day

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Quote: "Cats will really help you conquer the Nation."

Isn't it obvious?
Reason why I switched over to a cat based avatar.

Quote: " I play 1-3 hours of games a day and my grades are just fine... Try limiting yourself to 1 1/2- 2 hours a day"

Same here, except English, nothing but A's. I hate English.

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If anyone of you have ever played Project-entropia, then you'll know what i mean. If you havent, don't.

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As its been said before, a girlfriend really does do wonders. Since Ive started dating my girlfriend, games are more like something to pass time when shes not around


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Or if you can't get a girlfriend, get some homies and just walk around your town with them 3-5 tiems a week. It did wonders for me.

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By "Did wonders for you" did you mean "Got arrested"?


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Quote: "Or if you can't get a girlfriend, get some homies and just walk around your town with them 3-5 tiems a week. It did wonders for me."


That's the funniest thing I've read all week!

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nah i am not big into the "homie" thing lol
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Quote: "Or if you can't get a girlfriend, get some homies and just walk around your town with them 3-5 tiems a week. It did wonders for me."
dont do that in malls, me and my frineds have been kicked out of so many malls it isnt funny

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Quote: "Since Ive started dating my girlfriend, games are more like something to pass time when shes not around"

If they weren't, then you wouldn't have a girl
Yep.. focus on the girl

Quote: "just walk around your town with them 3-5 tiems a week"

Yep.. that works..

Quote: "dont do that in malls"

I did when I was a 12yo dude ^^
Actually they don't care..

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Quote: "By "Did wonders for you" did you mean "Got arrested"?
"

Surprisingly no, but I did get OK at jumping fences running from people and for my size thats an accomplishment


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um in the beginning there was talk about "diablo-2" and "diablo". what the heck are they?

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They are like, games. With monsters and elves and stuff.

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Jeeze...only a week till Dumbo & Cool...wow


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I think i will quit WOW DLing the EQ2 Demo ATM

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