It's been a while since I played, but I think it was only 3 that had a woman (Heather, who if I remember correctly was the daughter of Harry Mason, the first main character); SH2 had James Sunderland, obviously a man.
SH4 definetely wasn't my favourite in the series, but I still don't get why everyone hates it so much... SH2 has to be my favourite though, closely followed by three.
And Joel, did I seriously just see you waste three words blatently saying that you hate Silent Hill? Well, if you're seriously going to tell me there will be better game-film adaptations, all I could do is laugh in your face.
I've personally always liked RE better (Until RE4, which departed way to much from the old formula to me), but SH has always been a close second; the psychological horror of it works so well, it's ingenious.
"I hate erecting my tree, my whole family always wants to join in and all the balls fall around the place." - Zotoaster Merry Christmas!