I also use Slinky's
The pink ones.
Anyway - despite being new to the guitar world, I've been around a guitarist of a technical disposition.
As is mentioned above, it sounds like you're picking up guff. When they say shielding and grounding, they mean open up the guitar (taking the scratchplate off, usually).
Inside there is a cavity with your pickup/s and a hole that leads down to your switches and eventually your socket. Now, some people use special copper foil to line that cavity (to shield it) but I've heard that aluminium foil works almost as well. Also, there should be a ground wire on your socket that connects to all your switches and your pickups - if there isn't then you're not grounded. Depending on how bad it is, all large pieces of metal on your guitar body should really be grounded (attached to the ground wire on the socket).
There are no doubt webpages with pictures on how to shield your guitar (the easier job) and how to ground it (the one that requires soldering or skillful electrical tape use).