You could try Quikly Game Pro, its totally awesome, its cheap, it comes from a reliable developer, with fast delivery and amazing technical support, I'd recommend it...Okay I'm pulling your chain, you can't even pay for the empty disk known as quikly
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But seriously, Dark Basic Pro is a real easy tool for making games, it requires coding, but it isn't too bad once you get started, I don't know of many 3D game makers, but you could try some awesome 2D ones like Games Factory, RPGMaker, Multimedia fusion etc.
It will take some good searching
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