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Zombie 20
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Posted: 4th Sep 2007 02:03 Edited at: 4th Sep 2007 04:07
I know many of you don't read this and I don't expect many people to do so, I don't have too many internet friends but I still want them to know whats going on in my life so thats why I'm writing a blog. I have been in love with my good good friend for five years now and I never knew how she felt about me..it always seemed like we liked one another *I am in love with her, I could spend the rest of my days with her.* but I never really knew and I found out that she did like me throughout high school but I couldn't see the signs. I'm a tad oblivious to girls and most of the other doings in the world and I really think that is for the best sometimes because if I weren't so in the dark, I might change and I don't want to change who I am..I like who I am and what I do makes people laugh and thats really cool. Anyway..so I got to see my best friend chels again and we were all hanging out and at the end of the night we were talking in her car and she asked me what I thought she was thinking..well I didn't have a clue so I decided to make a joke which didn't work. So finally, she grabbed my head and started to kiss me..which caught me off guard, and she said "thats what I was thinking." I was in shock, my dreamgirl..the girl that I would marry in a heartbeat kissed me..happiest day of my life, she had to go home then as it was quite late and I waved goobye to her and waited for her to leave and then I collapsed on the lawn and started laughing manically. I had so much energy I had to run around the development just to calm down enough to even go in the house *mind you its around 12:45 am*. I am so happy right now and I got to hang out with her for a little bit again today so we would have the chance to say goodbye to one another and she's going to come up and see me on thursday which is great!


I'm going to surprise her and tell her I'm coming down to see her again since my roomies are making a trip down home this coming weekend. I can't really put into words how I'm feeling right now..I guess the best thing to say is I feel loved and I feel like I've soared far beyond cloud 9..I am in absolute euphoria and yes if you haven't noticed yet I madly in love with my friend and I think she's feeling that way about me too ^_^. I have dreamed of that day for many months on end..working up the courage to even talk to her let alone try to kiss her, and the funny thing is I always tell people just grab the girl and kiss her dammit! But..in that situation I didn't even take my own advice which I thought was kind of funny..anyway I guess thats it for now..thanks for reading and I'm SOOOOOOO happy!!!!

The Ian
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Yea this is the girl from the clown story if anyone read the new gf thread, there is more to the story but I summarized for ya ^_^.

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Posted: 4th Sep 2007 02:07
Quote: "I'm in Love!!!"


You'll get over it after the kids come.

Seriously...congratulations!

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Posted: 4th Sep 2007 02:16
Zombie, congrats.

Don't worry about missing the signs - women tend to think we get them, they don't realize that men usually don't take their way of subtle hints very well.

Watch out if she ever starts a sentence with "if you really love me you'd..." and congratulations!

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Posted: 4th Sep 2007 02:16
Not another girlfriend thread. Well Zombie, don't make us do what we did to Jordan's thread.

Congrats though buddy, I almost got into a relationship with someone I really liked but screwed it all up because I suck.

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Posted: 4th Sep 2007 02:20
Congrats!

Quote: "Watch out if she ever starts a sentence with "if you really love me you'd...""



Subtle hints? More like subtle subtleness... No hints involved.

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Posted: 4th Sep 2007 02:31
Very nice man! Congradulations!!!

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Posted: 4th Sep 2007 02:35
Quote: "grabbed my head and started to kiss me"


Rawr, you've got a fiesty one.

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Posted: 4th Sep 2007 02:39
Haha.. nice one Zombie

My one and only tip - don't smother her, ya know.. like give her room to breathe as you both enjoy the tornado like beginnings of your relationship.

Oh, and kiss goodbye to whatever geek productivity you may have had

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Posted: 4th Sep 2007 02:52
@Zombie: Lucky. I hope all is best and this relationship carries on wish best of luck but try not to show her you codezzzzzzzz.lol

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Posted: 4th Sep 2007 02:53
you're story is so touching. *sniff*

congrats any way


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Posted: 4th Sep 2007 02:57 Edited at: 4th Sep 2007 02:58
Hey congratulations man!

Always nice to have someone who can clean up after you.

I was about to kiss the girl i liked once, but then someone rushed in the door and blew everything.


*nice avatar, seppuku.

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Posted: 4th Sep 2007 03:14
Quote: "I was about to kiss the girl i liked once, but then someone rushed in the door and blew everything."

It was me!!! lol not really.

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Posted: 4th Sep 2007 03:15
Grats dude. Hope it works out for you two

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Posted: 4th Sep 2007 03:39
Quote: "Rawr, you've got a fiesty one."


Lucky man, that's pretty much what any guy is hoping for.

I look forward to hearing crazy stories of your zombie kids.

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Posted: 4th Sep 2007 03:41
Hehe he has already done that in the 3 word story thread

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Posted: 4th Sep 2007 04:04 Edited at: 4th Sep 2007 04:16
Thank you all for your funny and kind words..no worries I mean we live an hour away from each other but all my friends keep saying "Ian, you need to come home now! We miss you..no kidding, those were their words so I'm moving home soon, in about six months."


I could never hurt her..and I'm so happy that this has happened, she's coming up to see me on thursday which is great and I'm gonna surprise her this weekend and we're already real close friends so this actually is wonderful...hahah I've been dancing around for two days now haha..I've got the music back in me soul!!

Quote: "Oh, and kiss goodbye to whatever geek productivity you may have had "


Oh rich haha forgot to tell ya..she's a gamer woot! Teh codez lives on!

Quote: "you're story is so touching. *sniff* "

That made me laugh..I've got the biggest grin on my face right now.

Quote: " Well Zombie, don't make us do what we did to Jordan's thread. "

Oh sep..you know it will happen anyway..most threads I make descend into silliness because thats how I am..I'd be offended if you didn't make a joke or two haha. *I would't really be offended haha but I'm a good actor *

Thank you all very much..I knew that would get some responses..I just had to tell someone and you guys and a few others are practically my internet family...so I had to share the good news! I mean we're not going out yet as a couple per say..but I really want to..I'm just terribly shy and nervous around her, she's the only girl that can make me snap into attention and throw me back to my silly self in that same instant...it gives her an advantage over me haha. And her eyes..ahhh I LOVE her eyes and her smile and everything about her is just so damn cute..I love her personality and I can make her laugh which is always a good thing for me, I love making people laugh. Besides..she doesn't mind my randomness..she gets annoyed at how naive I am with girls though..since as you could see from the summarized story *there was more but I'm lazy * I'm not too good around a girl that I know I've fallen in love with..there's only one girl out there for this zombie and he just got kissed by her.

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Posted: 4th Sep 2007 04:23
Congrats


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Posted: 4th Sep 2007 04:27
You know what the last thread like this turned out like....

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Quote: "You know what the last thread like this turned out like...."

That was because it was posted by a...umm, should we say "less mature" person of the forums, who mentioned he had already been through like 8 girlfriends at his young age . Anyway, congratulations zombie .


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Posted: 4th Sep 2007 04:30
Many thanks around..but I actually didn't do anything haha she kissed me haha. I thought about kissing her but I was too nervous and jittery.

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Posted: 4th Sep 2007 04:53
Hehe, nervous and jittery... Reminds me of my first kiss, almost a year ago. Still with the same girl and planning to live together by the end of next year, so I guess (hope!) relations at this age can work out after all.

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Posted: 4th Sep 2007 04:56 Edited at: 4th Sep 2007 04:58
[looks at your tea leafs]

Enjoy it while it lasts, one of you will go off to University and the other will have a broken heart and probably try to kill themself.

Love is the best feeling and the worst feeling

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Hahaha nah mate..none of us would off ourselves..we're not like that, she's strong willed and I can be when the time calls for it haha. I miss her already..I didn't want to come back..I hate that so much..I wish I could hug her right now.

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Posted: 4th Sep 2007 04:58
And my tea leafs? Tell me!

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Posted: 4th Sep 2007 05:10 Edited at: 4th Sep 2007 05:12
Congradulations! It's getting late and I'm using the Wii right now so I'll post a longer reply tomorrow. The best of luck to you two!

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Posted: 4th Sep 2007 05:20 Edited at: 4th Sep 2007 05:20
Congrats, but here's a tip for ya, DON'T rush things, lol.
Reminds me of when me and this girl were going out, and I tried to kiss her after the first date, she wasn't to happy

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Posted: 4th Sep 2007 05:56
I hope this goes on to be 10 pages.

Good luck Zombie.


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thanks guys..like I said, I miss her soooo much right now..she loves seeing me, its been about two years since we've ever properly hung out like this past weekend. I said to her did ya miss me? She said you have no idea Ian haha..I'm a missed person woot!


If this goes onto ten pages that would be so funny..I could see it happening.

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Posted: 4th Sep 2007 06:17
Quote: "I'm a missed person woot! "


I remember what that was like.

Well, all I can say is.... Show us some screenshots.

Just kidding. I just had to pull the "screenshots" instead of picstures joke.
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Posted: 4th Sep 2007 06:20 Edited at: 4th Sep 2007 06:24
Lol..I don't have a good pic of her that I can post up.. I think I put one up in the new gf thread..I'd have to find it..

I made her a birthday card in paint because I wasn't able to be down for her b-day, she loved it, I was so happy. I love seeing her smile.

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Quote: " Go for it, girls never initiate it do they . Just wait for a moment, you know like when you both stop talking and make eye contact. She might give you a slap but she'll like it either way "


Hahahaha just read that in the new gf thread..funny how she kissed me haha.

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Posted: 4th Sep 2007 12:22
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Oh sep..you know it will happen anyway..most threads I make descend into silliness because thats how I am..I'd be offended if you didn't make a joke or two haha. *I would't really be offended haha but I'm a good actor *"


Well in that case...what position is she going to have in the uprise? I mean, if I know anything about girlfriends in an evil empire they have a way of well...screwing things up, either she has a good heart and the evil guy turns good, she kills the evil guy and rules his empire with tyranny or manipulate the evil leader with their allure...All I can say is, now that you're in love, don't it blind you from your true evil.

Quote: "*nice avatar, seppuku."


Hehe, may as well live up to my real nickname and make my avatar a legend. Nothing beats Bob Marley.

Well all I can say is, make her happy and don't make her sad or annoyed, keep an open mind amigo and never be mean to her - if she's as great as you make her out to be, that way, you'll have a successful relationship that'll last 'till the day you die.

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Quote: "That was because it was posted by a...umm, should we say "less mature" person of the forums, who mentioned he had already been through like 8 girlfriends at his young age . Anyway, congratulations zombie .
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Oh...

Well good luck mate....

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Quote: "Congrats though buddy, I almost got into a relationship with someone I really liked but screwed it all up because I suck."

haha, I'm sure that's happened to everyone on here at least twice

This makes me feel lonely
Happy for ya though Zombie, couldn't be arsed to read the whole thing but it seemed to be going well

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Congrats Zombie
Although, now you'll have a lot less time on here more time with her, eh?



Cheers
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Posted: 4th Sep 2007 17:30
Congratulations Zombie,

Hope you two are having a great time together.(Which should be no problem,considering that she is a gamer.)


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Posted: 4th Sep 2007 17:32
That's awesome, I wish something like that would happen to me

I still really like this girl I met in Greece, and now that I've left, I still cant get over her. It sucks when you get the best girlfriend you ever had, then you have to break up with that one when both of you want to stay together.

Congratulations.

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Quote: "Which should be no problem,considering that she is a gamer."


That's just icing on the cake, isn't it? If you mess this up, I'll have to slap the back of your head.

Seriously, with a fish.

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I'm in love (with a female) but I don't know what to do...

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O.F.: If you dont try you never get her. If you do, you might, eh?

"It's like floating a boat on a liquid that I don't know, but I'm quite happy to drink it if I'm thirsty enough" - Me being a good programmer but sucking at computers
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Quote: "I'm in love (with a female) but I don't know what to do..."


So am I. I just always get that anti-coding vibe from them, apart from that, I put myself down a lot, no idea why though, my friends seem to hate it.

Oh well, nice one anyway Zom 20, make it stick, no doubt you will.



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Posted: 4th Sep 2007 23:50
Never, ever, had a girlfriend. Just can't understand the opposite sex. Emotional swings confuse me no end.


Since the other one was scaring you guys so much...
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how old are you Nex? (but dont tell me if your under the age of whatever you're not supposed to say if you're under...)

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Quote: "Never, ever, had a girlfriend. Just can't understand the opposite sex. Emotional swings confuse me no end."


You may be one of the lucky ones, it isn't really nice to be attracted to someone, it could turn against you badly, or at least thats my experience.



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I've been officially "in love" for over three years now.


Feels good


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Posted: 5th Sep 2007 00:32 Edited at: 5th Sep 2007 00:35
Sometimes when I really like a girl and get her, I get pissed off because I cant really sit there and wish to have her I know it sounds stupid, lol. Sometimes I also feel unhappy because then it's a new burden, but then I find out that when the right one comes along it's all good

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Quote: "So finally, she grabbed my head and started to kiss me..which caught me off guard, and she said "thats what I was thinking." "


rofl That's awesome. Judging by how your described yourself about women, its sounds like that was all accidental.

Word of advice, what you're thinking about doing can possibly backfire on you.
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Quote: "what you're thinking about doing can possibly backfire on you."



That's what she said!

That's not as bad as you think you said.
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If he's thinking what I think he's thinking...the idea of a backfire will mean a night in hospital from internal phallic injuries. And when you think about it, that kind of thing is a major turn off for girls.

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Posted: 5th Sep 2007 02:22
Hahahah you guys make me laugh..I'm an innocent person and so is she..she's never had sex, never done drugs *well we both love caffiene ^_^* and she's so fun to be around. I had sex but um..yea lets not get into that.

Thank you all for the kind words..I hope this will all work out..I'm so happy right now and I always am when I talk to her..in high school I would call her every day after school to ask her how her day was and just talk with her, she never seemed to mind either. All I have to say is, thursday cannot get here fast enough.

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Quote: "I had sex but um..yea lets not get into that."


Woa, woa, not so fast.

Not sure how close we are to breaking teh rules with that topic, course I've never read the AUP. But really, don't do the thing that we thinking your thinking, cause it'll be a boat load of poop if something goes wrong. But it sounds like you're a good enough guy, so I'm not expecting you to take advantage of someone you've seemingly liked for a while.

There's only one question left.

Screenshots?

Just kidding.

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