Quote: "Statistics, your feelings, what you think you know and anything else doesn't matter."
So in effect; facts and figures, studies and surveys, and basically the truth doesn't matter...
Quote: "Until you have children, you cannot understand the other side of the equation. You just don't have the experience."
Possibly, in terms of feelings and the need to protect them from any
perceived harm. But also, I hate it when people always play the "if you're not in my situation, then you wouldn't understand" card as I believe it is perfectly possible that this can happen - this is what empathy is all about, as well as experience and intelligence (i.e. I don't need to hit myself over the head with a hammer to know that it hurts, even though I've never done this before and had this experience).
Quote: "the power is where it should be; in the hands of the parent"
this is the whole debate; and that is only your own opinion...
Quote: "based on experience and having full knowledge of their child"
any parent that believes they have "full knowledge" of their child/children are living in a fantasy world (and if you really do believe this, then I'm afraid to be the one to burst your bubble).
Quote: "but considering some parents today, I can't really hate the decision"
although I agree with this; it seems you are arguing both sides of the coin, as this is directly opposite to what you just said in in your last paragraph:
Quote: "The parent can decide, based on experience and having full knowledge of their child, what is appropriate and what is not."
You can either have it one way or the other; you can't have it both ways...
Finally, I'm not saying you are wrong, or how you choose to raise your kids is wrong (or even those other parents we just mentioned are wrong; I'm not the Big Guy, so I have no right to judge).
All I'm saying is that when people start making laws to support their own beliefs of "How Things Ought To Be", then that's when we all lose a small piece of Freedom. And if this mindset continues, eventually we won't have any left - with no-one left to blame except ourselves...What was once a Right becomes Unlawful, or at least a Privilege granted only with mountains of paperwork, a fair bit of money, and obedience.
You may say that that last bit may make me sound like a bit of a nutter/anarchist, etc. Even if it does, please don't disregard the message because (of what you think) of the messenger.