Quote: "Love is a strange thing. "
Indeed.
I generally feel that
most (certainly not all) girls of around this generation are more or less brats. I don't really hang around with any (hence, a deep lack of experience - maybe I shouldn't be talking about this
) I'm not entirely sure how they are, but through news articles and an inkling of experience, they are generally bad news. You offer your heart to them, they take it, spit on it, and give it back. And if they come back to you after not finding anything better, they act like it never happened. Maybe I'm just describing the worst of them - like I said, I lack experience.
On topic: I personally would give her another chance, but if she did it in a time where you could (maybe not neccessarily
needed ) have used some moral support, what's to stop us from thinking that she's with you only for the fun parts? If you lost your job would she still be your girlfriend? If you had permanently lost your vision from your accident, would she still care for you?
This a tedious situation to think about carefully. Of course, you've probably already had your talk by now, but hey, stuff to keep in mind for the future, right?
Quote: "Once a partner in a relationship cheats, he/she will only cheat again down the road"
I am not entirely sure this is true - I suppose it depends
heavily on moral upbringing. I've heard of stories couples recovering from one of them cheating, but then again, that's not everyone...
Quote: "Don't let yourself go down the road I did. You'll become a heartless human incapable of love with extreme detachment issues and you'll find yourself hooking up with randoms every few nights in a bar. At least I did. Lol. Personally I'm enjoying myself, but I don't recommend it for anyone."
There is another road, the Road of Bitterness, also, and it is not a fun one to be on, trust me. Don't let your imagination play with things like this for too long or it might hurt.
The really annoying thing about life is that everyone and everything and every organization is out there to make themselves look the best and attract people to themselves/itself. Once you join the organization, share your heart with that special person, or own the awesome thing, you find they/it have serious flaws or problems. This, then, leaves me in a position of wondering if I set my expectations too high, or if the person/thing/organization is not showcasing themselves in an honest manner... ironically, the bad parts that make you think twice typically don't surface until after the money is spent
Quote: "Don't agree with that at all. They either want to be with you, and only you....or they don't. Cut and dry. I also agree with the others about having nothing to hide from my significant other. A healthy relationship that lasts will always be built on trust; when that is gone, all that is left is merely a shell game."
That is probably a critical thing to
any deep relationship you have. Whether a close friend, girlfriend, or whatever, trust is
key to making it last. I don't think you need to share all of your passwords with everyone (especially when the T&Cs don't permit it), but if you don't trust them, then together, you
won't go far.
Quote: " you might want to buy a cat. As long as you have tuna they are loyal. "
Kitty kibble works too - but believe me, they love tuna!
Well,
Anayar, you've done me a lot of favors in the past, and right now, all I can say is "Thank you!" and wish you well and good luck. Prayers are coming, if you want.
Captain Coder
EDIT:
Sorry for the long post, didn't know I had so many comments!
That whole thing about Switzerland sounds crazy - good grief, I used to admire the Swiss. I having nothing against
TheComet though.
Quote: "Sorry to be the Devil's advocate here, but there are two sides to this story"
Yes there are, and that just makes everything more complicated, doesn't it?
Thanks for listening.
As a believer in Jesus Christ, I am trying to use my passion for game creation for His glory.
