Dunno...calling people bastards behind their backs and not always getting along is quite what I had in mind, that's if you want us to act like a TRUE family...if you want your picture perfect unrealistic portrayal of a family - as long as it isn't like those in those horrible American sitcoms - then great I guess.
The way I see it, is that people's goal should be 'happiness' (And I use happiness in terms of something more long term) rather than 'pleasure' or 'desire', in general terms a truely happy person is a person who isn't mean, who cares about others and expresses compassion on others - their state of mind is basically avoiding any negativity and it doesn't matter what situation they're in, they're happy - take Christopher Reeve, he was a happy fellow after his accident and died a happy man, despite the major set back for him, while he was paralysed I think he did somethings dedicated to others like him. That probably is a good example of a happy celebrity who through tragedy manages to be decent and happy. I suppose I'm just talking out of the Dalai Lama's mouth but I think it's a non-religious goal people should try to achieve...unfortunately 'happiness' and 'pleasure' get mixed up too often...
Whoops, I just went off on one there, oh well, I've written my partially full opinion.
I shot the sheriff