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rolfyQuote: "Maybe a more fitting punishment would be to sit them down with some folks who lost family and friends and explain to them what was so funny about your joke. (This goes for you too Wolf)"
Yes dad
1. I was a kid. Yes! This
is an excuse. Everyone who has ever been a kid knows this. You are immature when you are immature.
My view back then:
2. I believe everything can be joked about. I truely do. Joking about the darkest thing can even be healing or at least make us see a pitch black thing in a lighter way. (no! our jokes where not written in that spirit back then)
George carlin and Jim Jefferies have some pretty good jokes about rape. Our jokes where funny too, some of them in the beginning really where. It was the extreme response from the other members that drove us to go on and make the more infantile and pseudo-threatening claims.
Why? It was a remedy to an otherwise dead-dry forum full of people who believed they had morality leased for themselves spewing fake, pretentious sympathy to people they never knew nor cared about to make themselves seem even better in their little community. None of these cared about these people or even did anything remotely decent (donations for example) to them. We saw it like they only caressed their egos on there and took action. Justified? No. Necessary? No. This was how I felt about it at that age. In the end I am way more disgusted by false condolences than coldblooded jokes.
Why else? Something absurd, yet tragic happened...monstrous and incomprehensible for many. Dont we make it worse if we arent allowed to make fun of it?
We overexaggarated (did I get that word right?) it and gave it a lighter touch. We commented on the paranoia and the way older people saw videogaming teenagers at that time and on how awful the state regulated the affair (the way nothing has changed in the german education system, no one got on the bottom of how lower classes can be hostile environemnts and how bullying like this could happen in a supervised facility, how can teachers be threatened not to act by students? How did these kids get access to firearms in a country where they are strictly regulated?) and played the blame game was the actual joke there.
We in no way included any details or similaritys to actual incidents where people ran amok. (we could have mentioned cruise-ship, rather than school and there would be nothing to related to these events in germany). So actually explaining this to people who lost friends in such an incident doesnt really fit. It only "kinda" fits...
This was my 15 year old selfs honest oppinion. Do I have the same oppinion now as an adult? No! Of course not! Do I believe I should have been imprisoned to, as some extremist would put it, "learn my lesson?" No! Of course not! Having the police involved in this was lesson enough.
Also, your semi-mature argument is understandable altough a little bland really. Every now and then someone dies under absurd circumstances and people laugh about it. They joke about it.
* A jockey died of a heartattack, yet his horse won!
Is it okay to joke about this? yes! Is it okay to joke about this in front of his wife and children? No, of course not.
Edit: And before someone gives me the "if it happened to you" argument. Yes! People in my family have been murdered, committed suicide or got wasted away by drugs. This happened.
Yes! I have the emotional maturity to handle a joke about this.
Its an insane world, and I'm happy to be around for a while.
-Wolf