Ok, read this all you crazy geeks and nerds.
Getting a girl is simple.
You have to attract them to you. Theres a series of
impressions, and from there its all you.
The first impression is looks.
If you look stunningly amazing, go about your way doing your own thing, not bothering anyone, and barely talking. Girl's will come to you, and they will try to start a conversation.
If you look average: be quietly where you are, doing whatever. Shoot a few glances at her, and once you make eye contact once or twice, give a sharp head nod upwards, indicating your saying "hey" or "whats up". She'll either give the nod back and turn around, or continue to look at you. If she turns around, then you've failed for this time, try again with her the next day.
If she waits for you to say more, then its time for conversation.
Now, if you look ugly, or just not that good, theres only a few things you need to take care of.
Hair. Find a nice hair color, hair cut, and hair style.
Face. Get rid of pimples, acne, anything along the likes.
Glasses. Try contacts
Clothes. Ask a friend of yours that gets girls what kinda shirts/pants you should wear. Take a look at his wardrobe. DO NOT let your mother or aunt buy your clothes.
Shoes. If you don't got the money for the really nice shoes, your best chance is to get away with nice cheap shoes, or find a store thats on a big sale, and go for the grab with the nice ones.
Ok, its time for the second impression. Now that you have their attention,
its time for conversation. What you say is VERY IMPORTANT!
Make sure your voice/tone of voice is alright.
Start with a simple, "what's up".
Then move on to open ended questions.
DO NOT USE 'YES OR NO' QUESTIONS.
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If there's a dance or football game or something or an event that most kids your age are going to, say, on friday; say "What ya doin on Friday?"
She'll then answer.
If shes going to one of those events, then say "ohh, cool, me too. Who are you going with?"
If she says nobody, say, "me neither."
If you think the vibes are right, ask "wanna go together?" and give a small smile. Not a creepy one. Dont creep her out.
If she says "yes" then its all you man, go get her.
Say "ok, great. do you have a cell? I can call you later to see when and where we can meet up"
If she doesnt have a cell, say "oh." and ask for another way to contact her, or make plans right then and there.
If she does, get her number, and thats the end. You got her
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Remember, the key is PATIENCE. It might not all happen on the first day. Dont rush it and make yourself look like an idiot.
Now, the third impression.
Personality.
Be who you are. Do not pretend, do not fake.
Do not be nervous.
Be nice. Show that you care, or if you dont, act like it.
Listen to her. Talk with her. OPEN ENDED QUESTIONS.
From here its all up to you.
Good luck fellow geeks and nerds. I hope this helped
Meh. Signatures. Lame :p
