i'd say that girlfriends, especially when your young complicate the whole experience. if you're willing to stop enjoying your teenage years then go for it, else play the field.
in my experience you only tend to strike gold once in a blue moon when all the planets are in equinox to find a lass who quite frankly doesn't turn out to be part-bitch.
last one I had was seriously nasty and I didn't even realise it for months.. although looking back it was kinda obvious, heh but hindsight is always 20-20
i mean it's fun just playing the field when your still young enough to be able to run from their boyfriends or husbands
the best thing to hook lasses is really being appealing to them
Some guy who looks a bit shifty slowly dancing up to a lass before striking up meaningless conversation and such... yeah never going to work. EVER.
There is a technique to getting lass' interest in a club on a dancefloor, but creeping like a predator and being all nervous and crap. Yeah totally pointless.
Girls for the most part are the same as getting new friends. No one really likes the cowardly shy person in the corner, cept other shy cowards who quiver at the sight of someone.
You want to get their attention, then you've got to have a more direct approach that slips you in to their attention without it looking like you're trying.
A good thing to try, especially if you have a wingman for it.. is to basically move to where-ever the lass is from where you are (obviously i'm meaning either at school or whatever, not like different counties
) and ya know strike up a conversation with your mate that well ends up in some sorta argument.
Like say who plays that guy on a popular TV show.. say Desperate Housewives (or whatever lass' your age watch). Both of you need to be totally wrong, so when you talk to the lass to ask her to settle it; she can be like "oh I don't watch that show" or "it was such'n'such, d'uh" from that you can basically keep the conversation alive with topics that are related... like if she doesn't watch it, be all like "oh? so what do you watch then, Charlie Jade?" if you make it sound like a joke or your making fun as if even though you don't know what she watches it's obviously bad this will irk her a bit.
Which is cool, cause trust me she'll dwell on that conversation even if it ends there. End up getting noticed by her next time which gives you oppurtunities for more conversations.
I mean just a single scenario, but conversation works. Especially if you aim it towards her and don't hit the punchline right from the start. The best thing you can do to get a girl interested even if she is out of your usual league is to basically make her curious and irritated. Which is unbelievably easy for most lasses
